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The pros and cons of nesting in Indiana

On Behalf of | Feb 10, 2023 | Child Custody & Visitation, Family Law

Nesting, also known as birdnesting, is a parenting arrangement where children remain in their family home and their parents take turns living with them rather than the children moving between two separate locations after a divorce or separation. The concept of nesting is gaining popularity in Indiana to reduce stress and upheaval for children during and after a divorce or separation.

Pros of nesting

Nesting can help children maintain a sense of normalcy and stability, as they can remain in their familiar home environment, surrounded by their belongings, pets and local friends. This can help minimize the negative impact of separation or divorce on children.

Children are spared the stress and confusion of constantly adjusting to new environments and schedules by eliminating the need to move between two homes. For parents, it can also minimize the stress of coordinating programs and managing two separate dwellings.

With both parents sharing the family home, they are forced to communicate more effectively and work together to create a peaceful and harmonious living environment for the children.

Cons of nesting

Sharing a home with your ex-partner can be challenging and may result in an increased level of conflict and tension. It may also make it more difficult to move on from the relationship.

Furthermore, maintaining a single-family home for both parents can be expensive, especially if the house is large or the parents are on a tight budget. It may also be difficult for one parent to leave the family home and find alternative living arrangements.

With both parents living in the same home, family law issues such as conflicts and disagreements are likely to arise, which can be challenging for children to witness.

Determining if nesting is suitable for you and your kids

Nesting may be a suitable option for some families, but it is essential to consider the pros and cons before deciding. Ultimately, what is most important is what is best for your children and what will minimize the impact of a separation or divorce on them. While finances and convenience come second, they still contribute to your ability to best provide for your children, and making a wise decision on the type of joint custody is crucial.